To Learn More:

INVEST A FEW MINUTES OF YOUR TIME NOW TO ACCESS FREE AND USER FRIENDLY INFORMATION THAT MAY BE HELPFUL TO YOU.

START  HERE:

Family time is important to me and my Life Partner.


Managing finances effectively is important to us.


Finding time to focus on personal financial life goals is difficult.


Supervision and coordination of all professional advice needs would be helpful.


Lack of transparency and trust of advisers worries us.


NEXT
Please note that we do not keep any of your answers in our system

Questionnaire Result

Your score suggests you may not be ready now to consider the need for help with your personal affairs.

Should your circumstances change, please contact us for a free and confidential consultation.

There are key areas of your life you cannot delegate, such as all aspects of Physical, Health, Relationships and Career.

Every month, we release an e-newsletter that focuses on these four important areas of life.

This informative publication may be of interest to you and your family.

We invite you now to complete the invitation below to subscribe to our free monthly e-newsletter.

You will also receive the self-help forms for you to explore more to be known about yourself.

Questionnaire Result

Slide To Submit
»
Slide To Submit
»
13 Things To Look For In A Healthy Relationship

13 Things To Look For In A Healthy Relationship


“We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics.” – Joyce Meyer


Published by Carol Church



What’s your idea of a great relationship? Do you fantasize about finding a preordained “soulmate”?

Maybe you know two people who you think of as “the perfect couple” and wish you could have what they appear to have.

What’s A Real-Life Good Relationship?

What’s the actual reality of “true love” and strong relationships? This can be especially hard to know when you’re younger and less experienced – though plenty of adults don’t have it figured out either. After all, we often see romantic love portrayed in unrealistic or confusing ways.

In real life, good relationships with strong foundations generally share many basic features. While you may not have thought about these qualities before, you might recognize that couples you admire live and breathe them!

So what behaviors are we talking about? In a healthy relationship, couples…

1.   Communicate openly.

Can you talk to each other about tough issues and share your real feelings?

2.  Are happy for their partners when they succeed.

If one of you does a great job on something or gets good news, does your partner share in your excitement?

3.  Respect each others’ limits and boundaries.  

If one of you asks the other not to do something, or if someone is unavailable, does your partner respect that?

4.  Encourage each other to spend time with other loved ones. 

When someone chooses to hang out with friends or be with family, is the other partner supportive?

5.  Disagree constructively.  

When there’s a problem, can you work things through without screaming, name-calling, threats, or emotional or physical violence?

6.  Have a good time together doing activities they enjoy.

Do the two of you spend quality time with one another having fun in light-hearted ways?

7.  Don’t try to control or manipulate each other.

Does anyone say things like, “If you loved me, you wouldn’t…” or try to forbid the other person from doing certain things or seeing certain people? (If so, that’s a danger sign!)

8.  Express love, admiration, and affection to each other.  

Do you frequently compliment each other and say loving and positive things to one another?

9.  Trust each other.

Do either of you tend to get jealous and upset about the other person talking to or spending time with other people? (Red flag!)

10.  Support each others’ interests and aspirations.

Do you know what your partner’s hopes and dreams are? Do you support one another as you each pursue your interests and goals?

11.  Can rely on each other in times of need.

If one of you needs help or support, will the other person be there for them, even when it may be difficult?

12.  Feel safe with each other.

Do you feel physically and emotionally at ease with each other, knowing that there is no danger?

13.  Encourage each other to succeed and do well.

Do both of you encourage each other to meet goals and achieve in school, work, and other pursuits?

Of course, not every good relationship will have all these strengths at all times, but that’s usually okay (unless there is abuse). Remember, though, all of us deserve to experience a partnership that embodies most of these qualities. Though it may take time, effort, and patience, it’s definitely worth it.

“Far too many people are looking for the right person, instead of trying to be the right person.” -  Gloria Steinem

“I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, its not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.” -  Robin Williams


© Carol Church. All Rights Reserved.